You know, I have to say that I’m very disillusioned. I’m on this site because yes, I have a raging libido and I have a dark and kinky side that more than borders on the exotic, but I also have feelings and am looking for someone to share my time with and more from there if it happens. I do not like to be led on by a woman who is unsure of what she wants or why she is on here. It seems that some ladies on here are completely full of shit…blunt but true. Lets face it, if you’re on here and you’re serious, then you’re serious, but if you’re just a little attention or a wannabe who has read every “Fifty Shades of Grey” novel and suddenly thinks the lifestyle is your thing, or you’re a ridiculous tease with self esteem issues that you stoke from attention garnered here, then you need to find a new hang out. Attention s, wannabes, game players, psychos, and closet kinksters need not apply. I’ve been part of this lifestyle for years and while I enjoy the interactions that can occur from meetings made here, I also am tired of wasting my time with individuals that do not respond to my sincerity. Here’s the deal; I’m not an arrogant man, but I am confident. If I take the time to message you, its because I find you attractive, fascinating and see possible potentials. I do not throw my pearls before swine. If you respond, be prepared for me to want to get to know you, I love sex, and I’m good at it because I do love it, but there’s more to it than just the act. I always strive to make a frind and keep a friend. If we talk, meet, and things happen, then that’s terrific, but know that I want at the very least to be your friend…even if its just friends with benefits. This little rant is not directed at anyone I’m currently speaking with on here, but is a disclosure preceding the following “about me” stuff. Im really a nice guy, tender, loving and fun…I’m just tired of the games. Don’t step up to the plate unless you’re willing to play. Well, here goes nothing... My name is Rick. I am a pretty laid back individual and enjoy the simple things as well as the finer things. I was a big part of the Goth lifestyle for years, but marriage and a different path led me astray from my darker roots. Since my divorce I have reconstituted myself and am making my way back to the world I left but never lost my love for. I am open, honest, dedictated, and descreet. In the Eighties, I was an old school goth, complete with whiteface, eyeliner, and droopy stare. I was one of six other Goths in my Midwestern town of 25,000. As you might assume, the Sinister Six (as we called ourselves) took a lot of shit from the "normal's" that surrounded us, but we stuck together and graduated in the Spring of "87." Life moved on, and as it did, only myself and my best friend Darrin stayed true to ourselves…we still walk with the shadows to this day; he in Omaha, and myself here in Florida, far from the streets I prowled as a ager. I guess that's the test of a real per; whether through the curveballs that life throws you, that you manage to hold on to who you are and what makes you, you. Today, I'm a much of a dark soul as I ever was, but life and the experience that comes with it has made me better and more in harmony with who I am. No longer feeling the need to prove myself to the rest of the world is very liberating. I have a degree in psychology that I just finished and I hope to be either working as a protective service investigator or a behavioral the working with autistic ren within the next year. I'm also an amateur magician specializing in performance-based séances. No they aren't the real thing and the audience noes this, but after they leave they they're left wondering. I've been into magic since I was about 13 so its always been a pretty big part of my life. Something else about me is that I am NOT a misogynistic, macho asshole who thinks he needs to show cock photos or abdominal shots on his profile to pique the interests of possible playmates ltr's or fwb. I'm not arrogant, but I am confident…big difference. And I can tell you this...I wont need to show you pictures of my endowments because I have no need to show off...if you want to see the goods in per, thats what i would prefer. Ill treat you with respect (unless you want me to do otherwise...wink, wink), and Ill go out of my way to please you as much as you please me. I am fetish friendly!!! I have lots of toys and know how to use them :) And here is the big one...im transportationless right now...after my seperation/divorce I left the car with the ex...since my amazing little boy lives with her right now, there was no way I was taking the car. So what does that mean? I am going to be driving again around the end of December, so its only temporary. I have a great job so don't let it stop us from meeting if you decide you'd like to...I promise that Im worth it and that you wont be dissapointed! And secondly, since im in fantastic shape I can ride my 600.00 Mountain Bike anywhere within rea...so If you cant get to me, ill get to you. Hope to hear back from you. Rick

My Ideal Person I LOVE intellegent, creative, well spoken, women who carry themselves well. As a man I also try to do so, but more for myself more than to impress others. A woman who smells nice is a huge turn on. I also like a woman who isnt afraid to be herself...whatever that may be. So dont feel that if you dont fall into the above category that we cant meet...thant not the case at all.

If you have ANY questions at all, dont hesitate to ask...im an open book

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Psychedelic Furs, Roxy Music, The Police/Sting, Genesis/Phil
Collins, Steely Dan,

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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