My name is Siobhan and I am 38 years old. Took the summer off from college to relax and take sometime for myself. I share an apartment with my best friend. I am 5'1 , brown hair and eyes about 215. I lost over 100 pounds and had some plastic surgery. I am not barbie, but she is not worth all the hype. I prefer blunt, to the point, honest people. My day to day life gets pretty stressful so in the bedroom I prefer to be submissive. I am not looking for complicated, but I am also not looking for a one night stand. In my last marriage we took part in a swingers life style. This isn't my first time using the site, so I have been around the block a time or two. I do have rules we can talk about in private. Since I am 38 I do prefer to keep the age range from 35 to 45. Sorry guys I am not trying to be mean but black guys are really not my thing. Most my ex's I am still very good friends with and thats important to me. So what would my friends say about me? I am hard working, would give my shirt off my back to help anyone, I trust to easy, I give to much with out asking for anything in return, I have a heart of gold, loyal, great cook, funny, intelligent, and need to do more shit for myself. Lol Majority of my life I have worked with non profits in the compacity of somewhat like a social worker. I have also worked in boys group homes and jails. Lastly I would say do not every mistake my kindness for weakness.