I have been married 20 years and tried to make this marriage work in every which way, but my wife is not compliant. The worst part is the lack of anything I call sex for all these years. A wife is supposed to be an assistant to the fulfillment of mutual goals, not someone in whom you lose your identity. I want the friend and lover that my wife was supposed to be all these years. Appearance: I don't frighten small . Personality: Dry sense of humor, amateur psychologist, dresses shabbily by choice Character: Virtuous and continually refining. If you don't have character, then it doesn't matter what you have.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Elizabeth Hurley. She is not just good looking and in my
age group, she has an elegant and classy demeanor. <br><br>
Parker Posey. I think she must simply be a lot of fun just
to be with.

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